It has been a very long time since I have updated this blog. I haven't forgotten, there just hasn't been anything to say. I am trying to keep this as our adoption blog, so I don't post much else about life on here. Things are in the same place as they have been for awhile, waiting, waiting, waiting. We have seen a few referrals and court successes in the recent days. We are still a few months away from a referral. I keep trying to guess as to when it will be, but there is just no way of knowing. We have been waiting since the January and I would be very surprised if we had a referral before August or September- even that may be optimistic! The waiting has not been as hard as I anticipated. I think with the loss of Jason's job and the other things we have had going on, I have just been to preoccupied to think a lot about it. We've started talking about names, but without knowing the sex of the child, or their Ethiopian name (which we would like to somehow include in their name), we haven't had a whole lot of luck.